Once, an elderly general practitioner consulted me because of his severe depression. He could not overcome the loss of his wife who had died two years before and whom he had loved above all else. . . . I refrained from telling him anything but instead confronted him with the question, "What would have happened, Doctor, if you had died first, and your wife would have had to survive you?" "Oh," he said," "for her this would have been terrible; how she would have suffered!" Whereupon I replied, "You see, Doctor, such a suffering has been spared her, and it was you who have spared her this suffering--to be sure, at the price that now you have to survive and mourn her." He said no word but shook my hand and calmly left my office. (135)
Sunday, January 31
Reading up for my thesis led me to this passage by logotherapist Dr. Viktor E. Frankl,
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Did you hear, only a few days after his mother's death, Alexander McQueen took his own life. I'm assuming correlation here, but I think his closer friends suspect the same. Sometimes it's just too hard to go on.
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bern, at 12:00 am
Yeah, I've definitely come to a point where I'm considering who I'd want to die for (in the same sense that Alexander McQueen chose to) too. At the end of it all, it's a choice he made. Death erases ultimately, but it is the living that have to suffer the consequences, so we have to take that into consideration too.
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Ryan, at 2:55 pm
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